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Why "Whence the Adventure?"

4/24/2025

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Have you ever had an adventure? In his essay On Running After One's Hat, G.K. Chesterton wrote, 
An adventure is only an inconvenience ​
rightly considered. An inconvenience is only
​an adventure wrongly considered.
How easy it is to believe that our lives lack adventure! But how many of us can say that we never experience inconvenience? When we take Chesterton's words to heart, our whole lives open up to the possibility of adventure at every moment--even in the most ordinary of days.
The name Whence the Adventure is an attempt to capture that reality. "Whence" is one of those, shall we say, antique words that has largely fallen out of use, but it expresses so much of the adventurous spirit.​
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First, the word "whence" is both a question and an answer. To ask from whence a thing comes is to open oneself up to mystery and wonder. To seek the answer is adventure. To embrace the answer is to invite that mystery and wonder into one's own life and heart.
Second, "whence" is directional. It has a source, and it has a trajectory. Like life. Like souls. Like you and me.
Third, it is an invitation to ask this question in our own lives and hearts: From whence comes the adventure of this present moment? From whence comes the extraordinary gift of each ordinary day? From whence comes the great adventure that we call life? And the answer, of course, is not a where, but a Whom.
​Welcome, fellow sojourner, to Whence the Adventure​. 
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Unhidden

6/13/2023

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“You are the light of the world. A city set on a mountain cannot be hidden. Nor do they light a lamp and then put it under a bushel basket; it is set on a lampstand, where it gives light to all in the house. Just so, your light must shine before others, that they may see your good deeds and glorify your heavenly Father."
- Matthew 5:14-16
When we hear this passage from Scripture, it may be tempting to skip to the end—the exciting part, the part where we get to take action. We like to hear that we have the power to go out and change the world, and even secular culture is fond of the image of "letting our light shine." We are a nation of "do-ers," go getters, movers and shakers. It is something upon which we pride ourselves as Americans.
But when we skip to the end, we miss what letting our light shine really means.
The city did not make itself.
The city did not choose to be on the hill. It did not drag itself, brick by brick, to a place where it would be a beacon to the world. No, it is only on that hill because it was put there under someone else's power. It was someone else who gave the city its influence, its significance, and the chance to "shine before others." 
There is a pervasive attitude in our world today that says we have to "make something of ourselves." That is what the world means by "letting your light shine." But that's not what God means. Though it is true that we do have a responsibility for what we do with our lives and the gifts we've been given—Jesus was very clear about that—the city did not have to make itself. And neither do we.
At the moment of your Baptism, you received a light that cannot be extinguished. The Holy Spirit is in you, whether you are aware of it or not. Your soul was changed in that moment in a way that can never be undone. The fancy term for that is "indelible mark." In other words, your soul has been marked, claimed for God with a stamp that cannot be removed or "deleted." 
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It is the Holy Spirit living and moving and breathing in you that will "make something of you." All you have to do is cooperate.
​You are the city on a hill.
You and I, from the moment of our Baptisms, became those cities on a hill. We were placed there by God, with the help of our parents and Godparents. You may not have chosen it when it happened (if you were an infant), but you are there nonetheless. 
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Whether or not you will be on that hill is no longer up to you. You have been built. You have been planted. You have been placed there with great dignity, with divine purpose. And people see you​. Whether you want them to or not.
Does that scare you? It scares me a bit, if I'm honest. If you're anything like me, you make a constant effort to put your best face forward. The reality of being human, though, is that we can't keep our flaws to ourselves forever. Sooner or later our imperfections will out themselves, and the idea of "hiding under a bushel basket" suddenly becomes very appealing. But you can't hide a city. Something always gives it away.
You decide what people see.
The home I grew up in sits on the side of a bluff in rural Wisconsin. If you have ever been in the country at night, far from the city, you know how still and complete the darkness can be. In it, everything seems close, intimate. Everything except the stars, which leap from the blackened sky with an intensity you can never see in the city. During the day, if you know where to look, our home can be seen from miles away. But at night, it almost completely disappears. When all the lights are off, you can barely spot the faint speck of light that is our doorbell. It's nearly impossible to see, and you can never be absolutely sure it's there, but if you look hard enough, it can be found. 
Sadly, this is the way many of us live our lives. Instead of shining brightly to the glory of God, we shut the blinds and turn off everything that comes with a switch. If we turned on all the lights and opened the blinds, everyone would be able to see inside! They could see our messy rooms, the dishes we didn't wash, the laundry we didn't put away, and all the things we've wanted to but never gotten around to changing.
We couldn't hide anymore.
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But that's just it. The idea that hiding is an option is an illusion. Remember? You are a "city on a hill" which "cannot be hid." People see you. And they either see you living brightly and joyfully, or they see your boarded-up windows and "No Trespassing" signs. 
​What kind of city are you?
Are you a city full of light? Or one that has been closed up? I think most of us are a little of both. There are areas that we leave open—the safe areas that we're not ashamed of, or where we want affirmation—and there are others that are always closed. The challenge is allowing Christ into all of those places, both "safe" and "unsafe," so that He can make them all bearers of light.
​You don't have to shine on your own.
God didn't place you up on that hill and then abandon you. He gave you the Holy Spirit so you could become something greater by His power than you could ever be on your own.
We were not meant to hide away in fear with closed blinds and doused lights. "For God did not give us a spirit of cowardice, but rather a spirit of power and of love and of self-discipline" (2 Tim 1:7). It is a Spirit that transforms, that "makes all things new" (Rev 21:5). And if we really believe that God is God, we have to believe that He is actually capable ​of turning sinners into saints. If we believe that, the places we hide become places of glory, because it is there that we see how truly awesome God is. If we believe that, we no longer have to be afraid. 
If we really believe that God is God, we have to believe that He is actually capable of turning sinners into saints.
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Some of the greatest Saints we've ever known have been some of the greatest sinners. Augustine, Mary Magdalene, Matthew, Margaret of Cortona, and even St. Paul (just to name a few). The Church holds them up as examples of people who were imperfect—even seemingly hopeless—but still transformed by God because of HIS greatness, not theirs. 
These Saints lived as cities ablaze with the light of God. And because of their courage, we know Christ. Because of them, we can take heart in the assurance that no one is too far gone, no shadow is too dark, no city is beyond repair. After all, Jesus was a carpenter. 
We never know how the way we live our lives will affect those around us. By the grace of God, may each of us have the courage to live boldly and joyfully in the glory of God, as shining cities on a hill. Unafraid. Unashamed. Unhidden.​
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I'm A Writer: Catholic Writer's Conference Adventure #2

8/13/2022

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If any of you are a fan of old movies, you may recognize this bit of repartee from the classic film Breakfast at Tiffany's: 
PAUL:   "I'm a writer, I guess." 
HOLLY:  "You guess? Don't you know?" 
PAUL:  "Okay, positive statement, ringing affirmative! I'm a writer." 
- Breakfast at Tiffany's
"I'm a writer."
What a solid, self-assured statement. It wasn't one I repeated with any kind of confidence a few months ago. When pressed, I would say that I enjoyed writing. Or I might even call myself an "aspiring author", but that was as assured as I got. I had gotten used to sharing with people that I was writing a fantasy adventure series for teens, and even that I had finished my first book last year, but I didn't feel like I was entitled to identify myself as a writer. When people asked if I was going to publish, I was wishy-washy. Publishing would be nice, but it was more like a hobby that I hoped to share with others someday.
​So I said.
My hesitation could be justified, I suppose. A bold claim needs to be backed up. No one wants to find out that they're no good at something they love. It wasn't until the Catholic Writers Guild Conference that I realized how afraid I was to embrace what God was calling me into. 
The realization came when one of the authors at the conference offered me a bright, golden button that read, "Ask me about my BOOKS!-- Catholic Writers Guild Member." I quickly--and sheepishly--told her that I couldn't wear one of those buttons, because I had not been published. She just as quickly asked me if I was writing, had ever written, or even had an idea for a book. Of course, I had. THAT, she informed me, was what I should tell people about when they heeded the button. It was a revelation. 
Something changed in me in that moment. I went from feeling like the rookie with nothing to offer, someone who was "not there yet" or might never get there, to feeling like I belonged. I was a writer. Not because I had been published. Not because I had a blog with ten thousand followers. Not because I had sold something I had written. I was a writer because I wrote. Plain and simple. Because God gave me a gift that He wanted me to use. Because I followed the tug on my heart that said, "WRITE." 
The time for burying my coins in a hole in the ground was done. Now it was time to see what I, by the grace of God, could make of them.
My confidence grew as I practiced my "elevator pitch" on the people I met, and was met with interest and enthusiasm. I could only marvel. Maybe there was something to this after all. And when my pitch went well, resulting in a request for a book proposal, I finally began to admit to myself that God might actually want to do something with this. That realization was as exciting as it was terrifying. What would need to change in my life if He really did want this of me? And let's be honest, just because I had a great idea for a book didn't mean I could write one well. Still, that echo of a dream that had long been in my heart reverberated as I actually began to consider that I may have been selling God short.
Later during the conference, I had a chance to spend some time in Adoration of the Blessed Sacrament. I reflected, as I sat in the Lord's presence, upon certain moments over the years that led me there, to that make-shift chapel at the Catholic Writers Guild Conference. 
I remembered the first time I ever let someone read pieces of one of my stories. It was my junior year of college. The readers were my roommates. It was terribly embarrassing. At the same time, it was so exciting to finally share with  others something that had previously existed only in my own mind. And they liked the story. Or at least they were very nice about it if they didn't. Haha.
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Years later, I told a few of my friends about a different story. It was my first fantasy adventure, and their enthusiasm opened me up to the possibility that people other than myself might actually be interested in my stories, too. 
One of the most impactful moments came while watching a one-man play about the life of St. Maximilian Kolbe. At one point, I was struck by the words spoken in the play by this Saint: "Don't worry, I will not write anything that the Immaculata herself would not write." The Immaculata was Kolbe's favorite name for Jesus' mother, Mary. The power of Mary's example comes from her "fiat", her response to God's call in her life--"Let it be done unto me according to your word." And later, her unmitigated trust in her Son at the wedding in Cana--"Do whatever He tells you." 
It struck me in that moment, watching the play, that what I wrote mattered. The gift I had been given was not mine to use however I wanted, but was given to me for the glory of God. And if I ever wanted anyone to read my writing, it was important that the words I wrote and the stories I told led others toward Him, not away. My prayer in the midst of my writing had to be, "May it be done unto me (and my story and my characters) according to Your will, O God." And the heart and soul of it all? "Do whatever He tells you." 
It changed everything.
After the play, I prayed a prayer of surrender, offering all of my gifts and talents to the Lord to use however He saw fit. A few weeks later, the plot of my fantasy adventure book exploded, and suddenly new themes and characters made the story come alive as it never had before. One book turned into a trilogy. My little story became an epic. Over the next several years of writing that story, I learned so much about myself and the Lord, and what it meant to write for His glory. 
Fast-forward to four years ago. A friend of mine shared with me that he'd heard J.R.R. Tolkien would pray to the Angel of Inspiration while writing The Lord of the Rings, and that the angel had helped him whenever he got stuck. I had run into writers block in my trilogy, and decided to do the same.  
A few weeks later, I woke up in the morning with an idea in my head. A new idea. For a new story. One that grabbed me and wouldn't let go. I started writing. A few months later, I had a series outlined. I shared the idea with some of the youth I worked with, and they elicited a promise from me that I would finish Book One before they graduated from eighth grade. Months of writing and imagining and praying and revamping turned into years. And by the grace of God, last June, just three days after eighth grade graduation, I finished my very first book. 
At the time, I didn't know if anyone other than my students would ever read my story. Well, they and a few friends. And my mom. Haha. But somehow in God's timing and wisdom, He set just the right things in motion to get me to the Catholic Writers Guild Conference 2022, where He gave me the opportunity to pitch that story, and ask the very real question of what He is calling me to next. 
I have no idea if the story I pitched will be picked up. I hope it will. But in a way, it doesn't matter. Because the experience I had, the people I met, the truths I heard, the graces I encountered, they were all set up by the Lord in advance. He knew what He was doing. He used the Catholic Writers Guild Conference to stretch me, to call me out of myself, to remind me that all of my hopes and dreams are ultimately in His hands, and that He can be trusted with them. He reminded me that ultimately, I am HIS, and that's really all that matters.
Into the loving hands of the Father, I place all of my hopes and dreams, gifts and talents, fears and insecurities, my past, my present, and my future. He can make of me whatever He wills. And if I am interpreting correctly the work He is and has been doing in me, He wants to make me a writer. Or He already has. I have only to embrace it.
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PAUL:   "I'm a writer, I guess." 
HOLLY:  "You guess? Don't you know?" 
PAUL:  "Okay, positive statement, ringing affirmative! I'm a writer." 
- Breakfast at Tiffany's
I'm a writer. Indeed.
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Lamp Unto My Feet: Catholic Writers Conference Adventure #1

8/7/2022

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Full disclosure: I get really anxious when I face the unknown. Familiar? Yeah. I don't think I'm alone in this. Going to the Catholic Writers Conference 2022, I walked smack up against a lot of unknowns. Being a newcomer to The Catholic Writers Guild, and never having attended any kind of writing conference before, I felt much like a freshman on the first day of school. Green. Clueless. With "Rookie" painted in bold letters on my forehead. 
I didn't sleep much for about two weeks leading up to the conference, just trying to be as prepared as possible. The idea of pitching my (no-so) little story to someone who edits books professionally was really intimidating. What if my idea was trash? What if I found out I'm a terrible writer? What if this whole writing thing was all me and not God? What if this dream was foolish, unattainable, unfounded? Self-doubt had me spinning. ​
And yet...
In the midst of the turmoil, God called me to follow Him into the next right step. That sounded familiar, too.
Have you every had a life-compass crisis? You know, one of those moments where you find yourself with your head in your hands, asking, "What am I doing with my life?" I seem to have those every few years. It tends to happen when I get comfortable. When I start to think I have finally gotten "the hang of things" and know how to live life. 
That's when God taps me on the shoulder and asks me where I'm going. My answer is always the same:
​I HAVE NO IDEA. 
As much as it feels like a crisis at the time, that is always the moment when the Lord begins to introduce a new idea, a new direction. Sometimes the new direction is an attitude. "Acceptance with Joy." Sometimes it is a new conviction. "Chocolate is not actually food group," (though I may be in denial). Sometimes it is a timeless truth. "God cares about ME more than He cares about what I can DO for Him." 
And sometimes He reminds me of the same beautiful things He has been whispering to my heart for years: 
"Your word is a lamp for my feet,
​a light for my path." - Psalm 119:105
A lamp for my feet. 
A wise priest once pointed out in a homily I heard that "a lamp for my FEET" is not going to light up the whole road. As a matter of fact, it's only going to light the next right step. Impatient adventurer that I am, I would prefer that I see the whole road ahead of time. I want to know where I'm going. I want to eliminate the fear that comes with "the unknown". I tell myself that I would trust easier that way. But God knows better. 
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He gives me a lamp for my feet, not the whole path with all its challenges, failures, and triumphs. Because if I could see those challenges now, I might be too afraid to take the road at all. I might be too afraid to risk failure. I might be too afraid of the pain the comes from falling--or climbing. I might be afraid of the sacrifice. I might try to take shortcuts. The "easy" way. Or a way that seems better to me at the time. Or I might be too proud of what will be accomplished. I may forget that the gifts are only a glimmer of the Giver, who gives all good things. So, God shows me enough to keep me going, to take the next right step, as long as I keep trusting Him for that light. 
The Lord reminded me of this image, the lamp for my feet, as He invited me into the adventure of the Catholic Writers Conference. Whatever comes of it--whether my book is ever published or not--He assured me that attending was the next right step. I'll never know the answers if I never ask the questions. I'll never be anything but a rookie if I never attempt to play. I'll never know what the Lord can accomplish in me and through me if I never have the courage to hand Him my loaves and fishes. 
So here we are. I have offered my loaves and fishes. Now they get broken. And hopefully blessed. But I won't know for a while yet. And that's okay. Because the Lord has given me a lamp for my feet, and I trust that He has my best interest at heart in this next right step, wherever it may lead from here. 
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Face the Music

7/18/2022

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I wrote my first song in third grade. I printed it neatly on a piece of notebook paper, added authentic full-color illustrations with my crayons, and presented it to my teacher with great pride. I never actually sang her the song, but she was wonderfully gracious. I've been writing songs every since. 

​Song, for me, has been a form of prayer since I was a child. It was where I wrestled with the "big things" I was dealing with in my everyday life, and offered the deepest parts of my heart to the Lord. It still is. I've shared some of these songs with close friends, others with larger audiences, and others with the youth I've worked with over the years. It has been a joy to watch God touch hearts with these songs, even as He has touched mine. 
Sometimes I think the songs I write are a kind of journaling to music. Yet, I have always felt that "my" songs were only partially mine. It's more like they are given to me, and I often need to hear them more than anyone. It still amazes me that God will use a song I wrote years ago to speak to me in the present, and I suddenly get the feeling that I never really understood it before. Some songs are still a mystery to me. I've never fully grasped their meaning. But then, maybe the meaning is not for me to understand. Maybe it is for someone else. 
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